Hope dies last

Four

May 27, 2008 · 16 Comments

Looking through some of my old journals tonight I found this little gem.

How To Get A Guy:

1. Challenge him

2. Insinuate

3. Flirt

4. Be confusing

What would your four step strategy include?

Categories: List type stuff · On Being Single · On Dating · On Dreams

16 responses so far ↓

  • heidi // May 28, 2008 at 12:26 am

    1) Be confident.
    2) Look/feel beautiful
    3) Let THEM pursue YOU.
    4) Most important: don’t change yourself to fit them… compromise on the little things, but stay authentic to yourself.

  • thehappymisfit // May 28, 2008 at 1:58 am

    1. meet his eye.
    2. hint that you’re interested.
    3. ignore him.
    4. flirt (just a little) with his friend(s).

    that’s bad isn’t it? :)

  • Queen // May 28, 2008 at 8:34 am

    1. play mind games with your eyes
    2. flirt by letting him flirt
    3. smile as often as you can, and make those around you laugh including him (even if it means you have to embarass yourself a little)
    4. make your friends talk about you and your good traits when he is around

  • Sara Jane // May 28, 2008 at 12:29 pm

    1. Make eyes with him
    2. Flirt
    3. Be decisive
    4. Be yourself…you want someone who likes you the way that you are

  • Molly // May 28, 2008 at 5:34 pm

    1. Lock eyes
    2. Smile often
    3. Flirt just enough to get them hooked…
    4. …then let them come to you!

  • tiff // May 28, 2008 at 8:46 pm

    be confusing! if we’re talking about what I used to think, it would probably be:

    1) laugh at his jokes
    2) say no when you mean yes
    3) be shorter than him
    4) pretend you like everything he likes

    nowadays my list looks like this:

    1) be yourself
    2) don’t be fake
    3) make sure he laughs at your jokes
    4) buy him a beer

  • Chris // May 28, 2008 at 9:21 pm

    Too bad most girls jump directly to step no. 4 on Hope’s list :P

  • kristin // May 28, 2008 at 10:45 pm

    i like reading everyone’s!

    hm. i think mine would be something like this:

    1. make eyes at him.
    2. get him to smile.
    3. let him order me a drink.
    4. say something stupid.

    seriously. i think that’s about the way it goes.

  • libby // May 29, 2008 at 2:40 am

    how am I supposed to know?! lol!
    but this post and the comments? are some great take away tips! hahaha thanks hope ;)

  • thenextfish // May 29, 2008 at 4:09 am

    I’m pretty much agreed with your journal entry…
    1. Use coy flattery
    2. Smile and touch his arm
    3. Challenge him
    and then it goes one of two ways:
    4. Find some common ground and start rambling and joking
    or
    4. Stand around awkwardly wringing my hands and feeling stupid.

  • Essentially Me // May 29, 2008 at 6:17 am

    1) Lick my lips.
    2) Run an ice cube down my cleavage.
    3) Seductively bite my pinky finger.
    4) Tie the end of a cherry into a knot while looking him right in the eye.

    Okay, I don’t really do that stuff.

  • Jess // May 29, 2008 at 8:49 pm

    1. Smile
    2. Chat flirtily
    3. Show a bit of skin
    4. Touch him if possible and not awkward

  • Lydia // May 30, 2008 at 12:18 pm

    There’s only one step for me; to be confident to be myself.
    And if he can’t handle me, then we’re not meant to be :)

  • Princess Pointful // May 30, 2008 at 10:45 pm

    Laugh a lot, and don’t spend too much time focusing on just him.

  • jennnifer ramos // June 2, 2008 at 9:36 am

    should’ve done those things you said back when i was trying to WIN his heart..
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  • Froggy // June 2, 2008 at 5:18 pm

    That depends… do you want four steps? Or four steps that *work*?

    Hmmm…

    How to Get a Guy… Into Bed

    1. Kick his ass at pool.
    2. Tell stories he will find entertaining and laugh heartily at his.
    3. Lean across table, say “come here,” and kiss him.
    4. Wait half an hour, the leave… together.

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